Still life goes on!

Yes, I ran the marathon recently, and it was quite and experience I can tell you.

Loads of bands, playing all kinds of music from skiffle through big band to death metal, jigging us along on our way, all very pleasent.

The atmosphere of sixty thousand people jogging along in unison is really quite unique, and there is a real air of benevolence, encouraging your fellow runners not to give up, to think about how much better they’ll be feeling once they’ve got to the end, and just to keep on going. These little things as you pad your way around the course are a great help.

The supporters are lovely as well… Well. Most of them. The ones who stand there shouting encouragement, are great- “Come on Tim”, “keep going Batman”, “dig deep Jude”! That kind of thing is great, and as you go past the families smiling, waving and shaking their heads disbelievingly as you wander past at a slightly-faster-than-walking pace.

Its the few, the random and the ignorant ones that annoy you. The ones that stand outside run down pubs in East London, looking like they really need to visit a weight loss clinic, or just run a marathon themselves (I lost more than a kilogram in less than 4 hours!) they stand there and shout- “cmon, its not that far”, “pick your legs up and run” and all kinds of oh-so-unhelpful phrases. If we werent so knackered, we’d take them to task and kick 7 kinds of hell out of them.

However, we are marathon runners, and as such, are nice people, so we run on past, staggering toward the end, drinking lucozade, throwing water over our heads and generally just trying to keep cool.

If youre going to shout at us. Be nice, Be encouraging, and dont belittle the distance. If you think its not that far, you try and run it.

I began working from home because I needed the flexibility in scheduling so that I could take care of my children. It felt that there was not enough money in the world to pull me away from my children and my responsibilities at home so that is why I began working from home. Infact I started out in a caravan, and my first pay check paid for the caravan insurance. I’ve since upgraded, but the point is it doesn’t matter where you are or what you look like. (more…)

There have been paranormal investigators, in one form or another, for many years. But in the recent past it seems as though I am noticing more and more people are jumping on the bandwagon. Some people, like myself, like to investigate the paranormal as they want to uncover the truth about life after death. (more…)

“Art if made for its own Beauty and Entertainment if made for Money” is a Creative expression which best suits and quotes the “Treasure hunt games - made for adults”.

Treasure hunt games are used both by children and Adults as an enjoyment and thrill, but the face of the game is now turned towards other side “business”. Treasure hunt ‘Senet’ is in existent by 4th cent B.C. of Egyptian dynastic history.

Now this game is also played at corporate level for environment and team building purposes. These games are used where managers recognize that inter-departmental links or relation or moral of employees needs to be improved.

It basically a thriller game which makes our right brain to work .It increases our thinking capacity. It plays vital role in employee’s place, by improving their soft skills, decision making powered etc.

The team that works together wins together!’ this concept had brought many new developments in present treasure hunt games. London Taxi examples,
London Walking examples, Rickshaw treasure hunt, Business. The international treasure games Paris Taxi Treasure Hunt, Paris Walking Treasure Hunt etc., Revolves the games in national market.

Everyone is looking for their perfect match partner, the one that will make them “complete”. Unfortunately “perfect match” and “making complete” aren’t ways to identify who the right candidates are. In order to find your perfect match, you first have to get real with the kind of person you are looking for and how you see them fitting into your life. It might take you a couple of hours to get to the bottom of what your ideal partner should be like, but consider this an investment because a couple of hours soul searching now could save you a lot of wasted dates going out with the wrong kind of people.
Find some time when you are guaranteed not to be interrupted. Take the phone off the hook, tell friends and family members who may call around that you’re busy, buy a bottle of wine and run a bubble bath if that’s what it takes to get you in a romantic mood, then pick and pen and notepad and you’re all ready to get started.
Write a list of attributes you usually find attractive in potential dates, both physical and non-physical. You don’t need to worry about ordering these for now, just make sure you have a note of things you notice when you’re out for a night on the town.
Next make a list of things that you really can’t stand. Perhaps you hate guys with chat-up lines, or those who smoke. Maybe you prefer the non-tactile to the tactile. Again, this list should be physical and non-physical things that turn you off.
Now here comes the tricky part. What are you looking for in a perfect partner? What kind of person would your perfect match be? Would they be employed for example? Would they own a car? What about children – how do you feel about that issue? What about education? What about personality? Friends? Activities and interests? All of these things make up a rounded person, and you need to think about what kind of rounded person will fit right with you.
Lastly, and probably most importantly, the deal breakers. Supposing you’ve met someone who fits into all of your other criteria, but then they drop a bombshell on you and that’s the end of the relationship. Consider what things are so important to you that you would overlook everything else because of this one (or more) issue. This could include already married, criminal record, reputation of cheating, caught out on a lie, religion, political opinion, weight/health problem – whatever it is that you think you couldn’t overlook despite everything else being perfect, this is the list to put it on. If you meet someone, this is the first list you need to consider because otherwise you risk investing a lot of time and emotion into a relationship that’s dead in the water before it begins.
So there you go, now you know how to identify your perfect match. You use the perfect partner list in order to find the right type of person, the deal breaker list to narrow down the field, then your attractive/turn offs list to bring you even closer to the partner of your dreams. There, that wasn’t too bad was it?

If your ready to take the plunge please check out what speed dating event are avilable in your area.

Happy dating!

How many times have we heard those words from someone? I hate my job. How many times have we in fact said that ourselves either to a friends, a member of family or even a co-worker. Some of the braver of us find the courage to say it to our boss’s, and a few of those people sometimes even manage to hold onto their jobs afterwards!

It is a well heard phrase, and it is a complaint that is widespread. We spend more time doing our jobs than anything else. It doesn’t matter what that job is, whether you’re a highly paid face lift surgeon at a posh clinic, or you sit in a call centre on the end of telephone selling pet insurance to people. The level of pay generally doesn’t change the fact that we spend most of our time doing our job. So, understanding this, the question you have to ask yourself: is it worth it? If you enjoy your job, you’re laughing! You spend most of your lifetime doing something that you enjoy. You are on to a winner there, and you should make sure that you don’t let go of that. As to the rest of us, is it really worth it? (more…)

Every year that I can remember Easter has had the same format.  There’s Good Friday, then the weekend, and then Easter Monday – a good long break from the usual grind.  School children usually get the entire week after Easter as vacation time. Generally we spend too much money on chocolate eggs, and I know that we do an egg treasure hunt in the garden for the kids. Each year Easter moves slightly forwards or backwards, but the holiday block remains the same.  This year however it’s all changed and I’m not at all sure why!

I’ll admit that Easter is undeniably early.  Instead of being Spring, it still feels as if we’re in the depths of winter; a notion backed up by the weather.  But regardless of what mother nature is up to, Easter is Easter, and if the powers that decide such things have made it this early in the year, why is that for the first time I can remember, there’s some issue about which vacation days we should get? 

OK, so I have no idea why Easter is ever placed on the calendar somewhere between March and April, but I do know that this isn’t just a random act, there is some religious significance to when the date falls.   So I have no problem with the fact that instead of wearing spring clothes to take advantage of the liposuction I had done recently, I’m probably going to be out and about on Easter Sunday wearing my winter coat and boots.  The idea that vacation days should be affected because of the early Easter however is something I don’t get.  I’ve heard about schools rescheduling the “Easter” vacation for a few weeks after Easter so that it will become some kind of spring break.  But what about tradition?  What about families that have organized to spend Easter together either in this country or even booked to go abroad? 

The Government is always making noise about returning to old family values.  Well isn’t spending quality time on public holidays part of good traditional family values?  I remember Easters from my past filled with church parades and spring activities that my family shared together.  It was like Christmas without the presents.  This year however some parents are going to have to work on Easter’s equivalent of Boxing Day – and their kids are supposed to be at school.  Because it’s such a dog’s dinner however some parents will be off, some won’t.  Some kids will be at school.  Some won’t.  Some schools will be closed later in the year when probably the parents don’t have any public holidays to alleviate some of the child care provision required to cover school closure at that time.  What a mess!

Easter is Easter.  Good Friday, Easter Saturday, Easter Sunday and Easter Monday.  If the dates of Easter itself must change, let’s try and ensure that sense prevails in future and the vacation period remains steady and people can plan their lives without the uncertainty of whether their kid’s school and their employer are on the same page – or calendar!

I’ve always hated Cat Bores. You know the kind of people I’m talking about, they lost sight of reality the day they brought Tibbles home and never recovered. Next thing you know it’s framed pictures of their stupid moggie on the wall, mundane anecdotes and interrupted phone conversations so you can hear the stupid thing purring. Cats are driven by instinct. Cat People assign human attributes to this behaviour because it is fun for them. Cat People are wrong.

Or so I thought, until the day I met Claude. I’m still not sure exactly how it happened. Claude is my housemate’s cat, when I moved in Clause was already living here. Claude is a black cat with a squishy tummy and a sarcastic face. But it just snuck up on me somehow. The occasional afternoon playing with a toy mouse, furtive glances in the hallway and then, one day I came home and he was on my bed. He meowed crossly at me and stormed out, as if he was the one paying the rent and I had trampled on his rights, but then he came back the next day. Somehow we just got used to each other and then, joy of joys that first special day when Claude climbed up and sat purring on my lap.

It wasn’t until the day I held the phone up to his little face so he could say hello to my mum that I realised I had gone over to the other side. I was a cat bore in denial. I quickly calculated the number of hours spent talking to or about Claude in the previous week. All my friends knew more about Claude’s life>cat insurance of cat toys. I’m a Claude person. And from the look in his eyes, he knows.

I'm still not entirely sure what a blepharoplasty clinic is, but I know its some

kind of plastic surgery type thing. What's the relevance of this you may ask? Well, our great leader and Company MD has usefully gotten every employee a

discount for it! Myah is thinking about reaching into her pocket for once and trying to make herself more beautiful. Good luck to her.

I’m from a part of the country that thrives on football.  Never mind past-time, it’s the local obsession!  Somehow the football gene missed me out completely however.  As a participatory sport, or a spectator one, it leaves me cold.  There’s something that can’t be denied however and that’s the feeling of pride that surrounds the city when the team is doing well, or even the electricity that seems to hang in the air when there’s an important home game being played at the team’s stadium in the centre of the city. 

It’s that feeling of community pride that was sparked yesterday when I read about Kevin Keegan returning to the area to manage the team.  There are always folk heroes and Keegan is certainly one of those in the history of football in this area.  Both as player and manager this is a man who has managed to create an even greater enthusiasm for the team than usually exists – not an easy task when a football team has as much support from its fan base as this one does.  Despite the fact he didn’t get the team to a major trophy last time he managed it, he’s still fondly remembered as someone who shines in this team’s history and someone who I’m pleased to see return to the area.

Like the game, or loathe it (as I do) it’s hard not to notice when something has a positive influence over a community, and Keegan once again leading Newcastle United is definitely that.  Whether you’re in a bus, or the local grocery store, it’s going to be the talk of the area for a few weeks to come.   Whether or not he manages to pull an a shiny new acquisition into the team’s sadly lacking trophy cabinet out of his sport’s bag is yet to be seen.  Simply the fact that this giant football legend is once more in command  at St. James’ Park is enough to have any talk of possible “unthinkable” relegation replaced with one of hope and renewed enthusiasm amongst the notorious “Toon Army” – even with the footie avoiders like myself!

First of all, one must consider the bread. It must be whole grain, full of flavor but devoid of any “additives”. I suggest a nice sprouted wheat bread: whole grain, no high-fructose corn syrup, lightly seeded crust. The size of the slice should be about the palm of your hand and about the thickness of the first joint of your finger. This is the secret to the perfect ham sandwich.

Secondly, one must think about the ingredients, other than the ham, of course. Cheese, mustard and a bit of lettuce are the perfect combination. Let’s talk cheese. Cheese is wonderful, but you must not use your run-of-the-mill-dairy-aisle cheese in the grocery store. To make the sandwich perfect, go to your local cheese shop. I highly recommend a nice Havarti type cheese: creamy, smooth and aged to perfection. Cheddar isn’t bad either, but Havarti is better. Trust me. Now, let us talk mustard. It is no good using the cheap yellow mustard easily obtained at any fast food restaurant. Go for a deli technique with whole mustard seeds and high-quality ingredients. True mustard is not neon yellow! Lastly, let us speak of lettuce. Romaine is best – approximately two leaves, rinsed and patted dry with a paper towel. The crisper, the better. This is the secret to the perfect ham sandwich.

Thirdly, one must ponder the ham. It is no good getting pre-packaged lunch meat. No, no, no! Go to the deli. Order some freshly sliced lunch meat. Your taste buds will appreciate your thoughtfulness. But, what type of ham? Honey-cured? Only if you enjoy the deviousness of a sweet palate. Do not ruin a masterful ham sandwich with sweetness. Go for the salt-cured. Thinly sliced. Trust me. Your mouth will be much happier with those savory slices than sickly-sweet ham. This is the secret to the perfect ham sandwich.

Finally, one must consider how to layer the sandwich together: bread, two slices of ham, mustard, cheese, mustard, two slices of ham, bread. This is the secret to the perfect ham sandwich.